Starting of a "new life" (second sem)

This semester we have to rearrange our timetable again, meet new classmates, use new classrooms and also meet new lecturers. Everything is just like first sem, start all over again. HAISH. very tiring and troublesome, especially the timetable!!! Hate it the most. I cannot understand why UCSI kept on changing the timetable. And the funny thing is, the timetable is different on the IIS (the website) and the board. I am very speechless regarding to this. Besides that, it is very headache to arrange the timetable. First, we cannot take whatever subject we want because some of the subjects will clash with another subject. It's very funny that we are actually forced to take some of the subjects because it's not offer next semester or it's a compulsory subject this sem. So we need to try our best to figure and set the best timetable. It also depends on your luck. This time my timetable is not bad. Classes are from monday till thursday only same as Kimmy. Anyway, I still love my last sem's timetable. T^T

Statistic was the first class on the first day. The lecturer's eyes looks like Pixie Hollow. Lol~ Abit stress on the group work. cz it carries 30 percent. Haish. Pray pray pray that i will get a good group mate. >< I was very very very emo at night as this can considered to be my first time to stay outside alone. The feeling is really not good when the lights are off. Looking at the strange and quite ugly environment around you, missing your family members can be awful. And really thanks to Ling Li and Bei Yi help me carrying all my stuffs to 21st floor. Thanks to Kimmy also to take care my car. Ling Li and Bei Yi really li hai... they carry the small cupboard and one big box respectively. Ling Li abit cold, I think she's quite tired adi..she even carry two small pillows and jackets from my car=.=.........................................


I finally found a friend worked in Alumni house!!! but too bad, it was his first day, he dare not bring us to go upstairs. HAISH. Really got abit angry at UCSI's system. The result was suppose to be out on yesterday 2pm. But only partially..=.=.... means some of the subject's grades are still remain unknown. =.= That is why, i hated technology. =3= We were very nervous when 2pm comes and we only get to know our result by 4pm. Before I open I was very very very very nervous and my heart pounded very fast. BUT! there are only 2 subject's results shown. UCSI! how many times u wanna scare me!!! Pray to my uni life and psy 1~

Watched American Next Top Model season 18 with Kimmy yesterday at Bei and Ling Li's house. Very shuang. Kimmy, if you see this, pls fast fast dwl all the episodes k!!!!!!!!!!! HAHA. Yesterday night was the first night that we 4 ppl sleep together in the same house in Cheras. Haha, how good if we are real housemates. Then Kimmy can cook lunch and dinner for us adi. XD

Till now I still have not see the face of my roommate. =.= And today my lecturer say getting CGPA 3.5 is very very very good adi...hmm is tad so? I think so. First class honours very hard to get!!! Even 2 A plus out of 4 subjects also cannot guarentee first class, sumour its so far away from first class!!! OMG. Abit scare~ Very stress when look at my course outlet. 2nd year's subjects are all research research and research thingy.  HAISH. I know ling li sure will feel very very emo for me. T^T

Hmmm, seems like my first week sounds very normal. But it's not!!!!! >< ( Ting Yong's fav) :p
Next blog preview: The amazing things that happened in the first week of 2nd sem. :D

Lovely parents and their pretty sweet nice awesome daughter day! :p

Today is another awesome day! I went back to Cheras again with my parents to pay the deposit for the room.

Before going to Angkasa, I sudenly feel want go Ikea. So my Dad brought us to Ikea. HEHE. Too bad the appointment was at 5pm so we dont have much time to walk around Ikea. and today is suppose to be the Bersih 3.0 day. I forgot and my mum wore yellow dress coincidentally.=.= I sudenly rmb when we were about to reach Ikea. I told my parents about the bersih 3.0 incident and before i could finish i saw my mum in yellow then i shouted OMG WHY YOU WEAR YELLOW!!! THE POLICE WIL CATCH YOU!!!lol..then my dad steadily replied: " chill, wad to worry, i am here" (like very man). =.= lol

Okay then me and mum was happily shopping at ikea while dad waiting at a cafe to eat something. I really love to look at the Ikea's showrooms. And we bought something there! My mum regretted AGAIN for buying so less stuffs. swt... I adi warn her but she still regret. and make my dad need to bring my mum to Ikea again next time. Anyway, I know how to Ikea adi from UCSI hehehehehehe!!! Ohya, my mum was very cold. she said to me: "you see, all Ikea's workers are wearing yellow, are them in danger too?" Okay then i swt there.

Then my dad quickly send us to Angkasa to look at my condo. Really feel proud of my dad, he's like a GPS. everywhere also know how to go. I also wanna be like him :p. My parents are really more princessy than me.=.= complaining about how far the distance from UCSI, complain about the lift, complain about the hot weather. But they do love angkasa because of one reason (which is same wit mine)--- THE SWIMMING POOL!! hahahaha.

I met Li Ling( one of the housemate) today and also Xing Hui ( the gal i replaced). They looked really niceee. So far, i only know my roommate's name and Li Ling is taking pharmacy and her roommate taking medic. and Li ling is really nice, she always clean the house. And the kitchen is well equipped. Anyway, I am very very happy with the price!!! cz you really can't find any room that is as cheap as mine near UCSI. hehehehehe. Anyway, i still think the condo is quite ugly, i must decorate it. environment is very important,for me. :P While waiting for Xing Hui coming back from church, we went to Ali Baba to eat something. My parents said the roti canai was quite delicious. And i found out that they sell VSOY!!! so happy!!!

For the dinner, of course i wanna bring my parents to Sri Petaling. I actually said something wrong and made my Dad confused. So my Dad actually search for the place for quite a long time because of me. My mum was saying that lets go to another place to eat but my Dad insisted to go Sri Petaling cz he say i recommended there. But SRI PETALING!!! u made me very dissapointed today!!! I choose to eat at a fishball noodle restaurant called fei XXX. and the food was quite bad D:. Padi house is the best so far.

Anyway, I feel so good today to be their only daughter. Hahahahahhaah!!!my brother is only one year younger than me, so i din really enjoy to be the oni daughter for a long time. gegeggege~ Sorry to my bro and sis, today i get to be the one and only princess to be pampered~!!! XDXD ya!! my dad added RM50 more to my monthly allowance!!!happy!!! i am going to save many many many money! Lol~

This is how we hold hand today :)

Thank God for giving me a sweet and warm family. <3

my first uni SEM BREAK

Blog! ni hao ma~ long time no c adi.. <3 <3 <3
1st day of sem break:
Celebrated Mum's birthday. Wanted to go Shogun at first but Mum say wanna try out the new japanese buffet restaurant at uptown avenue. So we went there instead. Regretted!! compare to Shogun, we were really dissapointed at the restaurant. So we went to another japanese cuisine restaurant instead. The food there was Okay, not as good as Matsu near Jusco S'ban 2. lol.

2nd and 3rd day of sem break:
PD trip with DRS~~~!!! guess we felt very regret last time cuz we din really play with the sand and sea during our last visit. So finaly!!! we did now~~~ hahaha. it was great to spend time with DRS in Ling li's apartment. Thanks to her and her mum! Unfortunately, the night sore throat sudenly came to visit me ;( luckily i was okay in the next morning, just my voice became very sexy~ haha. And ya!!! I accidently know how to swim and also sink in a swimming pool. Anyway Ting yong say it was ugly=.= nvm, he also not very handsome. vincent wong became banyak secretive recently... wonder what he thinking. lol

 The sunset :)

 The funniest pic!!! hahaha :D

The sunrise!! :D

4th day of sem break:
Continue boil my korean drama-scent of a woman! quite special la the drama, although the main actress have cancer but the drama isn't like other sad drama. The drama made me fell in love wit Lee Doon Wook! he's so cute <3

5th day of sem break:
Went to watch we not naughty~ Not as good as i expected. lol

6th day of sem break:
Drawing day~ Sudenly feel got the mood to draw. So i suggested to have a competition with my brother.but before i finish the drawing i slept. hahaha~ I will not upload the pic of my drawing. cz its quite funny.=3=

7th day of sem break:
Today i went back to UCSI with kimmy to pay our school fees and also to accompany kimmy to take his scholarship letter from alumni house. I din know UCSI have such awesome place! the alumni house is just like a house! Kimmy in love with the fish pond. swt=.=... I wish to go upstair and explore.. but too bad it's not going to happen! ;( On the way to alumni house, we actually got lost. we accidently found a college in the middle of the bush. hahahaha. the college was like a house too! i was very astonish because i used to dream that my house as a school. I wonder how is it going to look like and i feel it would be really warm to study in a place exactly like a house! and another surprising outcome is, we met 梁佑诚！！！he was cleaning the floor when me and kimmy approach him. I thought he was one of the cleaning uncle but after he replied me after i ask him "is this a college?" i was a bit shock, why his voice sounds like the liang you cheng.. and he looks a bit like liang you cheng. his chinese, fuyoh, like taiwanese! and due to the person in charge, she told us he's liang you cheng! we were like OH MY GOD! and the college is actually quite amazing, cz there are many host and DJ as the lecturer there! the environment there was not bad. now stil feeling guilty, cz i actually lied that i am interested in mass com but in fact i just wanna take a look around. GG-ed if they found out! >< and feel very regret! cz too shy to take photo wit him! >< i guess he wont wan too. cz that time he wear like ah pek and was squatting and washing something. He even said goodbye to us with a cheerful smile~ and we found out that he actually drove a gold avanza. hahahaha and one more good news!!! finaly i found a room at angkasa, the best thing is, it is oni RM235 PER MONTH!!!! happy~~~~~~

8th day of sem break:
IT IS today. hahaa. finaly finish boiling my korean drama. the main actress did not die, but the drama also didnt say that she is recover. the day she will die is stil remain as unknown. =.= abit dissapointed. I was wondering how the ending will be like if she dies but eventually, she managed to live a little bit longer than expected. hmmm... and i learnt something from the drama. Dont always think that you still have tmrw to do it. Tmrw is always an excuse to run away from the thing. You will never know what will happen tmrw, same goes to, you will never know the outcome without trying. :)

Yuhoo~

 MY Final is coming. 3 more days. Finally i feel the stress~~~ Kinda worry, I MUST FINISH study. =3=


The first war has started this morning. Ling li, Bei and Kimmy have started the first war well, I assumed. HAHA. looking forward to my first war as well. cz after wars means HOLIDAY! and holiday means??? TRAVEL!!! travel means EXCITED! lol~ that is why this post's title is Yuhoo~ (My sociology lecturer's favourite!) haha. I guess their war today looks something like........

this (kimmy's, very tough but still survive)

 or this ( ling li's, too pro)

 or this ( bei's ,think its too easy)

Sigh, although everyone face the same war, but we are only allowed to defeat the enemies all by our own. How pathetic!

Just like this ( chick: " I AM OLLL READY! )

Okay, i better get back to continue my strategy planning. (Sounds abit cool) hahahhahaa I THINK I PROBABLY LOOK LIKE

this... when i am serious hehe

or this...... ( so pro!) XD

and i guess i look more like

this now=.= 

Nevermind. I shall not give up now!!! okie bye bye blog. STOP DISTRACT ME!

A small break before Finals

Current venue: C301 lecture hall

Time: 14:31

What's going on: someone doing sociology presentation.

Class: sociology

Lecture: Dr.Shalini

Weather: raining i guess but Deena said its not

Temperature: very cold...............

Feelings:  

1. Nervous- waiting to know my sociology internal marks

2. Looking forward- for the surprise present

3. Bad- some issues about respect

4. Relieve- after a miserable day

5. Happy- to meet many friends later

6. Worry- demanding too high for the CGPA this semester

7. Stress- internal marks

Sum: Complicated

Beside me: 

Deenakaran (looks exhausted because he jz ran down to first floor to print something)

Sing Ying ( missing currently)

Infront:

Dr. Shalini (evaluating the presentation)

Ateih (no idea wad she's doing)

Behind:

unknown guy ( duno wad he's doing also)

Feng fan ( preparing for his presentation)

Karman (concentrating)

Simple conclusion for today's class: I love you Dr. Shalini and i will miss this class. 

Wishes: 100 more wishes please. 

Shocking news: DEENA IS NOT A JAPANESE MIX! =.= ok i jz told prema he is. 

Current favourite dining place: SERI PETALING! haha. 

by the way, i am sad today and i dont know how to express it :(

Fairy: " I am here, everything will be fine soon! wait for me, i am coming! " 

hmmmmm :)

Realizing the overlooked facts

I had a role play last week and it was a really priceless lesson i had with a music therapist, Mr James. He is also one of the psychology lecturer in UCSI. I was assigned to play the role of the therapist, using client-centered therapy. It was one of the humanistic approach, which focuses on client's feelings and more "informal". It sounded easy but based on the lecturer, it was actually the toughest approach and it requires years of training. For me, every single words to be used in this session shall be picked carefully and for normal  person without training, we need to think twice or even think for a few days to see whether it is appropriate to the therapy or does it matches all the criteria.

Let me brief this therapy. There are a few important techniques we need to follow to conduct this therapy session. The first is empathy. We do not ask the client question and we normally use open ended question to know something. The second technique would be unconditional positive regard. It's very important to show the client that you are interested in the conversation and willing to help him/her. This can be shown by our body language and also gestures. And, it is very important that the therapist shall never make any judgement to the client. Genuineness is also one of the techniques. The therapist shall share a little of his/her real life experience to the client to show genuine, to make the client feel you understand him/her more since you have also came across that problem. Last but not least is the active listening. The therapist will use a lot of the paraphrasing technique to clarify or understand how the client feels. Basically, these are all we need to know in this level. Frankly speaking, before i am introduced to therapy sessions, i feel it is useless. I thought everybody can do it. However, it seems to be skillful because it was not easy and it is to be said, professional.

The lecturer has never stop emphasized that therapist should not give advice to their clients. The therapist have to be really good in communicating to lead their clients to find the answers their own. We human has actually contain a lots of so called bull shits thinking in our mind. For example, I am such an idiot if I do not get A for this class, it was such an easy subject, and an idiot shall not live in this world. For another approach, the therapist will challenge the client by making him/her realizing, who said failing is an idiot? who has proved that an idiot shall not survive in this world? It's not that we shall not set a goal in our life, setting a goal is important, but we can actually eliminate the bull shits word from a sentence. For example, I MUST get CGPA 4.0 in this semester, if not my life will be like hell. We can change it to, it will be NICE if i get 4.0 for my CGPA. Or, in higher demand, we can make the sentence to become I WOULD LIKE TO get 4.0 for my CGPA.

 Besides that, in my own role play, i have wrote this sentence " I know how you feel" in my script to show my unconditional positive regard. I thought it was good enough but the lecturer let me realized the fact that, therapist should be professional. Everybody will know how to say this whenever a someone approach you and tell you that he/she is upset or something. So rather than saying I know how you feel, we should also use another techniques to lead the client to talk more and understand more about his/her feelings. Another example is a client have difficulty in communicating with his/her parents. He/she did not want to go to the university his/her parents have chosen because of some reasons and was wondering how to express himself/herself to let his/her parents to know about it. It's so stupid to say the things that many people already know. For example, this university is expensive. I'll give another better example here, for example two branded cleanser one is made in America the other is made in Korea. The sales point should not be, these two products are branded. Everybody know SKII is branded right? In another way, the salesman/salesgirl should promote it in this way, Korea branded cleanser is a better option for me(a chinese) because Koreans have the same skin colour as we are. Thus, we will automatically have this type of "stereotype" that they understand us better since they also have the same skin. They know exactly the way to brightens our skin. The lecturer was awesome to pin-point these mini-mini stuffs that we overlooked sometimes. 

Okay, this pic is totally random. HAHA. Long or short fringe? :p

HOWEVER, It's another long post. Just wana share what i have learnt in class :) amazing critical thinkings. 

DRS Midvalley outing

Venue: Midvalley

Date: 7/3/2012

Another great outing with Vincent Wong, Adrian, Prema Lechu, Yuen Er and Kimmy! It's been a long time i didn't see Prem, Yuen Er and Adrian. Really miss them. And it's really sad that Ting Yong, Bei and Ling li can't join us. It will be really fun if they come along too.

We went pizza huts for dinner as we got RM30 vouchers!!! At first we all thought it was RM60, but.... =.= nvm.. at least we are really full! hahahahaha. Ohya, I tried Prawn Olio spaghetti. It was quite spicy with red capsicums and the taste of the fried garlic is really strong. Haha. It looks dry but it was actually quite succulent and luscious! Having dinner with DRS is really comfortable, as we always share our food and drinks.

Prawn Olio

Later then we went to watch " The Devil Inside". Emmm, i would not recommend this movie to my friends because i really don't like the way they end the movie. I actually have high expectations to this movie cz i heard from Vincent wong that it's a horror movie. But end up it's just something like paranormal activity 1, 2 and 3. Anyway PA 1,2,3 are better, i feel. The cinema was super super cold. I don't know whether is it because of the aircond or bcz it is raining outside.  Anyway, like what prema said, just imagine the movie was a roller coaster ride ahahhahahahha

After movie, of course we will be heading to some DRS members all times favourite STARBUCKS. lol. We had interesting chats there and yea, it was raining outside. I really miss prema and adrian's laughter. Their laughter can make non-jokes to jokes. Superb right! haha. By 1030 all of us decided to go back byVincent's NEW car, Nissan Sylphy!!! hahaha.Envy him so much!I actually like the smell in the car. :p

DADA~

It was still raining, and Adrian couldn't flag a cab so vincent sent him back to HELP instead. Just know Adrian is so pro to go midvalley from HELP. Lol. Then it's prema and yuen er's IMU hostel. Just realise IMU's hostel is quite nice. better than UCSI. then at last it's bdr tasik selatan ktm station. Lol.

Okay, it's just a simple summary of how the day start and end, but within these few hours, i am touched and felt really lucky to have this bunch of great friends. Vincent is so nice to send all of us home and of course he's adi really nice to come all the way from INTI to visit us. Everybody is really kind and warm as usual. Here are some of our pictures taken that day.

 Me and Adrian(HELP) =O

 @ pizza hut

 Vincent's(INTI)car!

 @Food court

 @ Starbucks

 Take 2 without Prema

 Prema(IMU), Yuen Er(IMU) and me! =D

 THE END

Am gonna visit INTI again one day!